I grow old… I grow old…
I shall wear the bottom of my trousers rolled
~ T.S. Eliot, The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock
Hmmm, will the seminal moments in my life ultimately be the ones that flew under the radar?
When I grow older (I am already old) and wear the bottom of my trousers rolled, I wonder if I will look back and find that the seminal moments – the ones that shine the brightest – were not the headline events but rather the unrecognized epiphanies.
There are many headline-grabbing events that have occurred over the course of my life to date. In no particular order and not an exhaustive list: 911, the COVID pandemic, the Trump years, the great northeast electrical blackout, the FLQ crisis, the death of Princess Diana, the space shuttle Challenger explosion, the birth of the internet and so on.
Each of these events was a landmark in and of itself. An event that forced us to stop, reflect, recalibrate and sometimes alter the course of our lives. Their impact and influence was undeniable and remains so.
But I wonder if, in the clarity of hindsight and old age, I will find myself unearthing a few seemingly forgettable moments that memory chose to retain. And find that, in the final analysis, they were chock full of meaning and lessons to be learned. Moments such as:
A breathtaking sunrise when the sun crested over the still water, infusing the clouds with hues of sandstone and honey orange, painting a glittering highway of light on the water. A vision of beauty, glory and hope everlasting for a heartbeat in time.
A moment when I stopped, reached into my pocket for loose change and dropped a toonie into the outstretched hands of a homeless person… and then received a sincere God bless you and a look of gratitude from weary eyes that mirrored pain and loss.
The occasion when someone offered me an unsolicited piece of advice, not fully appreciated in the moment, that would later arise to the light in a moment of uncertainty. A kernel of wisdom patiently awaiting its moment in time to unfold in full.
A gift of synchronicity when a Swallowtail butterfly perched upon a Knapweed and all the elements of lighting, timing and chance aligned for a perfect photograph. Celebrated in the moment and then filed away in the deeper recesses of my mind as a minor miracle.
I believe that these seminal moments, stored in the vault of memory for later retrieval, may ultimately be the gemstones that I most treasure and learn the most from experiencing.
Epiphanies that stayed under the radar but survived the test of time to return to me in the twilight of a life most ordinary but quietly remarkable in its own peculiar way.
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